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Working From Home, the Balancing Act

Posted 04 Oct 2009 — by Jennifer
Category Reed Educates, Self Awareness

There are some things you learn best in calm, and some in storm. – Willa Cather

This is why I wish one of you were reading along with me, our self awareness series, day 7, entry by Sarah Ban Breathnach for October 4th, in her book, Simple Abundance, A Daybook of Comfort and Joy quotes the above statement. I love the quote, but dont believe it 100% fits Breathnach’s lesson for today!

Today’s lesson speaks of “Homework.” When I say homework, I’m not speaking of those worksheets your children bring home! I’m talking about working from home, “your” homework. Breathnach tells us that it becomes difficult for work at home moms because we dont set clear hours. Often, we are caught cleaning house and space off work, or working hard and spacing off household needs. Working at home works well if a balance in work and home needs is found.

I find at times I get caught up as well. My normal day starts off with coffee and food. I straighten up the house for about 30 minutes, and then I sit down to get started on work. Work starts around 9:30am if I discipline myself. Work includes checking emails and my calendar, following up with any affiliates I work with, viewing website stats, writing post for you, pushing our post out to the world, checking my feed reader for blogs I follow, check my YouTube subscriptions for new videos, updating and viewing social media networks I subscribe to, follow what’s happening in the world, check website stats again to see if I’m meeting daily goals, and then I plan the next days work. Obviously, there is more to what I do, but this is my daily cycle. If this is all I do for the day, I’m done by 7pm or so. But realistically, I find other things to do for the website, like RESEARCH! Then I have these kids, so I stop what I’m doing and clean, cook, help with homework, do laundry, and many other things. So my day isn’t over till 9-10pm.

Lesson, set work hours and stick to them most of the time. I should start at 9:30am, and stop myself at 3pm. Take care of the kids’ needs and such till about 8pm, and work a bit more after they are settled. If I stick to a schedule, the kids will get attention, the husband won’t think I was on the computer all day, and work will get done!

I’ve talked about pacing yourself before. So this is a good way to prioritize what needs to be done with balance. If you work part-time or full-time from home, how do you create balance in your home with work and family needs? I love to hear from you, please comment below.   

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    Odd Behavior in the Home

    Posted 27 Sep 2009 — by Jennifer
    Category Reed Tidbits

    6c116387b843e6feSome very strange things have been going on in the Reed home these last few days! A few of the children cleaned up without being told, and not just once!

    It all started Friday night, I told the boys to unload the dishwasher. Robyn asked “Can I just do them?” Umm SURE! She not only unloaded, but proceeded to load the dishwasher as well.

    The next morning, I hear dishes’ clanking about, to my surprise, Robyn is doing dishes yet again! Hmmm… I dont dare call her on it, she might stop!

    Then earlier today, Yissie had the nerve to write on the walls with red crayon! I was not pleased one bit. Dad was just about to walk in and see red crayon on the wall. Not that it matters if he sees that, it’s just that he was on his way home from a long day at work. Who wants to see red crayon on the wall when they walk in the door?

    Low and behold Sinya wants to wash the walls! Great, get to washing missy! After washing the crayon off, Sinya wanted to wash more walls. Okay?! Then I look over, Renae is helping her, and then stops to pick up a broom! What is Renae doing with the broom, of all things she is sweeping! Not only did Renae sweep, but her and Sinya proceeded by mopping, cleaning the microwave, and even helped me cook! Oh no!

    What’s a mom to do? Are kids supposed to behave in this manner? They left me scared.

    Have you ever seen something of this nature?

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    The 9 to 5!

    Posted 26 May 2009 — by Jennifer
    Category Reed Tidbits

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    My oh my, back to work tomorrow. I’m saddened by a handful of reasons about jumping back into THE 9 TO 5! I’ve been home with my baby since August! Almost a year, time is a-flying! I’m in the middle of Potty Training 101! And bam! I’m off to work. So the process of the potty will slowwwwww down.

    Okay, now I  will grip a little bit. I don’t like to grip but hey….

    Working means Al has to drive me to work and back each day. Its not up the street. Medically my license was taken from me. I’m better now, well for the most part. But no work means no medical insurance. No medical insurance means no doctors release…. So he drives me each day, there and back…. No peace for him….

    Another issue… His kids, Robyn & Jr, we are scheduled to have them Wednesday – Saturday. We are responsible for taking them to school and picking them up on our days. We are now down to one car. I will have my license soon and its only practical I drive myself.. Who will transport them during the week. Side note: Since Robyn become a Teeny Bopper, her and Jr have only come a handful of times. I’d say a good 10 times since this school year started. Not often enough. Another blog on that another time….. With that said, the one car thing isn’t a big deal, by the time they come again we should have another car right? See what we mommies have to think about.

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    Five Minutes Notice Please

    Posted 21 May 2009 — by Jennifer
    Category Reed Tidbits
    200350619_748789c2b1_m1How many times do I have to ask my husband to let me know when people are coming inside the house? It’s not that my house is dirty. But at times there are toys all over the living room, and things here or there on the kitchen counter.

     I come out the bathroom and he has 2 of our neighbors in the house, who have never been in our house. Worst then that, he tries showing them pictures of an old car we had and is in a folder of not so cute pictures of me. You know those pictures of that awkward stage we all had.

    Okay, where was my quick warning. It is what it is. A messy house appears to mean dear ole wife doesn’t do too much. Why doesn’t she keep her house clean?

    Had it gone my way…..? A five minute warning would do the trick. 

    Wipe down anything that needs a quick wipe, throw some toys in the toy box, and then what do you know? They walk in and I’m doing dishes. How perfect is that, a wonderful wife who is cleaning her house.

    On a good note, my husband doesn’t care either way. He knows what I do and what I don’t do; and that is all that matters to him. Thanks Husband!

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