Posts Tagged ‘life’

It’s Always Something

Posted 11 Oct 2009 — by Jennifer
Category Self Awareness

11227682_0f70b4e1d9Isn’t it always something? Even on the best of days, there is that unpaid bill, lack of time, a headache! Whatever it is be thankful that it’s just an issue, and not a crisis. Even the most well put together people have an issue or two that they can talk about. What would be life without a tribulation now and again? Where would we get our lessons from if there wasn’t a mishap here and there?

Our self awareness series entry by Sarah Ban Breathnach for October 11th, in her book, Simple Abundance, A Daybook of Comfort and Joy speaks of there always being something that we can complain of. She speaks on a greater note; however, being thankful your complaints are only issues and not a crisis. Too many people start living for their true passions once a crisis hits. The crisis can be a health issue, a death in the family, a complete turnover on financial status, homelessness, anything that is life changing.

I know this pretty well, I didn’t get back into writing until recently. I had to be home from work with health issues to start writing again. I used to write poetry when Renae was small, about twelve years ago. Why did I stop? Where did I lose my authentic self?

This book was given to me by my sister in law about 5-6 years ago. The excerpt reads, “Jen, You are sunshine – do what you are meant to do! -shine- :) , D’Jne” She seen it, I had lost something. She told me one day, when I walked through the room I had a glow about me, this glow made the room brighter which made others happy. She told me I was lacking that! My husband said the same thing in other words about a year ago.

These are questions we must ask! I ask all of you to please not forget who you are! Look in the mirror and bring your authentic self back. What pleases you? What makes you the person that defines wholeness? What are you missing?

It may always be something, but it could be worse so please find who you lost, or if you haven’t lost yourself keep you alive. SHINE!

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    Birth Weight Health Risk & My Experience

    Posted 25 Sep 2009 — by Jennifer
    Category Reed Educates, Reed Tidbits
    A 19 pound baby? Are you serious? Have you seen the recent news of the woman in Indonesia who had a 19 pound baby? What a miracle!?

    I thought my babies were big. My smallest baby was one ounce shy of being 9 pounds, and my biggest baby was 10 lbs 1 oz! We have big babies here at the Reed house!

    Health risk comes from having big babies. The only baby I had zero complications with was my smallest, Sinya. My last, Yissie, could’ve been fatal for her or me.

    Having Yissie, put a stop to my baby making days for sure! A week before having her I could hardly breathe laying in bed, trying to induce her early was a failure! When she was ready to come, it was a frightening experience. Come time to push! Low and behold! At least 10-15 doctors ran in the room, one knocking over the big bulky monitoring system. My baby was so broad, she was stuck, and her shoulders weren’t making their way out! 

    My husband couldn’t take it, he runs out the room, doctors are shouting, my visitors crying, my mother in law shouts “the devil is a lie!”, and the only one that would watch the ordeal pan out is my own mother.

    One doctor yells at me, to “PUSH”… This isnt a regular request to push, this was a “your life depends on this” push! Now they have her shoulders out, she is still stuck! A few doctors are now trying to inch my babies’ torso out by turning her from side to side!

    Once things calmed down, they take my baby from me, her blood sugar is low! Now that her blood sugar is fixed, the doctors are concerned with my health! My blood pressure was too low and temperate too high. I’m told I could hemorrhage, or have an infection. With my symptoms and the fact I had a large baby, I was to not get out of bed. I must wait, and watch my health get better or worse!

    Of course, Im fine. I’m here today! You’re baby can be small, or large! Health risk comes with the territory! Giving birth to any baby can pose complications! This woman in Indonesia with a 19 pound baby, she experienced nothing less of a miracle! Click here to read more about this miracle.

    Have you had any birthing complications? Please share your story with our readers by commenting.

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    Amazing Video: Girl Nearly Struck by Car

    Posted 23 Sep 2009 — by Jennifer
    Category Reed Educates, Reed Tidbits
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    I can’t believe this! My heart sank when I watched this video of a little girl who almost didn’t make it, as a car almost takes her life away!

    The sad thing is, this is a wake up call for me. Often my eight year old little girl floats a few feet behind me. No more! She is walking by my side or in front of me!

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    Time is of the Essence!

    Posted 21 Sep 2009 — by Jennifer
    Category Reed Tidbits

    Day in and day out, we handle our day as if it’s just another day. Grabbing our to-do list, finishing our goals for the day, not getting enough sleep, leaving our spouse to fall asleep on their own, and at times forgetting to tuck our children in for bed, forgetting time is of the essence.

    Time is of the Essence. I say this because we’ve had our wake up call! My husband received a phone call this morning that his old friend, whom he hasn’t spoke to in years, passed in a car accident this morning. This man is but 37 years old, if that! His children have lost their father, if he had a significant other, she no longer wakes up to him, or falls asleep with his warmth. 

    My point is this; we get so caught up in time… Too often, I sleep in bed with the kids, and my husband is on the couch. Too often, we don’t speak about life; we only speak about what is necessary to run the house. Too often, we brush the kids off, because we are busy. Time is of the essence. It’s time to put down our to-do list and put down our pride, just for a few moments out the day, and remind our loved ones that we’re truly there for them.

    Have you told your good friends you were thinking about them lately? Is there someone out there that you should reach out? Maybe, there is that one person that you need to forgive. Have you spoken the words of love to your family lately, in action, not in words? Let’s all be sure to not lose sight of time, and remind those around us how special they really are.

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